Child Safety Tip For The Day From KidSafe ~ January 15, 2013

A Child who keeps secrets is what a predator is looking for!


For your child’s safety talk to your children about secrets and explain the difference between a “good” secret and a “bad” secret.

 

Good Secret – is a secret someone asks you to keep that has a time limit (example a surprise party) makes you feel good, proud, comfortable and you can’t wait to tell and you will very soon.

 

 

Bad Secret – is a secret someone tells you to “Never” tell, don’t ever “tell your parents” makes you feel confused, weird, uncomfortable, nervous and scared.

 

Teach your children that if anyone (even someone they know, love or trust) tells them a secret or to keep a secret from you, that they should come and report to you as soon as they can.

 

 

Explain that nobody should ever ask them to keep a secret from you, a secret you can never tell or one that makes them uncomfortable or confused.  Teach children to turn to a trusted adult – a person in their Circle of Safe Adults – when they have anything on their mind that is making them uncomfortable or confused. For more information on how to talk to your children about secrets www.kidsafefoundation.org/products

 

 

 

 

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“It was a normal Saturday and I was at the rink with my 7 and 8 year old. My son asked me if he could use the Men’s Restroom by himself.  Without hesitation, my daughter said,  Absolutely not! I was in KidSafe today and you cannot go to the restroom alone.  It is very important that Mommy is with you.. with us.   I was so proud of my little girl!  We are so blessed to have Debbie Miller at our school teaching our children the importance of safety. Many thanks to you all!  Your program and instruction is absolutely amazing.  Keep up the great work!"  

Tara Henley Admissions Assistant, St. Mark’s Episcopal Church and School, Ft. Lauderdale

I am a parent of two Pine Crest children and I attended your program on Monday night. I just wanted to thank you so very much for the very informative seminar. As hard as it was to hear all of those things, it was very needed. We were thrilled that you were able to come and share that very important information with us and our children. So again...thank you.

Elisa Aronberg

Today’s training was awesome! It was very informative. Sally was a very good resource, she motivated us a lot! We want to pass on this information to parents, teachers and students! Thank you for offering workshops like this. These are tools we use to continue serving our children and families.

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